How to make myself squirt during sex

Similar to the elusive G-spot orgasm , I had to experience it firsthand before I could completely buy into it. Squirting has happened to me. But, as is the case with a lot of sexting, our conversations eventually evolved from R-rated to X-rated to XXX-rated, meaning it went from chats to video fairly quickly. So one time, when we were talking dirty over FaceTime , I reached for my LeWand Bow —a stainless steel dildo perfect for G-spot stimulation and P-spot, too—and I became extremely aroused. While he was jerking off, painting a perfectly dirty picture with his words, and I was using my Bow, I realized my bed was getting wet. Like, really wet.

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. Q: Often, when I'm on the edge of orgasm , I'll feel overwhelmed, and will need to pause. I feel like I'm stopping myself just when it's getting really good, but I worry about what will happen if I do let go. What's going on? Should I push through? A: Thanks for the question!

You might wonder if squirting is a real thing. The answer is yes. Squirting is real. Some women never experience it.

By Sean Jameson — Written on Oct 01, Learning how to make yourself squirt can be incredibly pleasurable, especially if you do it with someone you care about. But many women struggle when learning the art of squirting and never quite figure out how to do it properly.