Men who love fetish sex

Fetishes existed since long but they ve come into light after Fifty Shades of Grey hit the stands. Spanking, blindfolds and handcuffs are very common. Not all sex fetishes are weird or abnormal. As long as they don t ruin your relationship or sexual life, sex fetishes might just add some fun to your monotonous sex life.

The acronym "BDSM" conjures images of leather-clad dominatrixes in high heeled boots hitting submissive men with a whip might to mind. That, or the erotic novel turned movie franchise "Fifty Shades of Grey. But BDSM, or bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, and sadism-masochism, is more complicated than that. From choking "breath play" to being tied up "rigging" to being hit with different items "impact pay" , BDSM can refer to a number of kinks and fetishes. But at their root, sexual acts that fall under the BDSM all have one thing in common. Despite BDSM being a consensual sexual dynamic between adults, it has been stigmatized over the years, with people who engage in kink and fetish sex often framed as freaks or sexual deviants. Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly condemned by the general public, people who engage in BDSM, kink, and fetish sex have historically been seen as weird or grotesque.

From threesomes to butt stuff , it seems like there are a lot of us looking for ways to spice up our sex lives. And in other cases, many of us are just looking for answers to our questions about sex—including fetish sex—that sex-ed classes never got around to covering. Wendasha Jenkins Hall , a sexuality researcher and educator who specializes in sexual wellness and pleasure, to answer some of the questions you may be too shy to ask.

Some people are aroused by being spanked or handcuffed or having their hair pulled. Specifically, watching my partner with another man. I first realized this during a hot August night, days before entering my senior year in college.